This is great:
The BBS I used to be on had a huge culture of this... lots of racist and homophobic terminology thrown around "ironically." Done well and
done sparingly, okay, I get it. I mean, think of That Guy you know who is constantly, pedantically schooling everyone within earshot about how their language is not inclusive. (I think
gordonzola once did a satirical post pretending to be That Guy, asking if it was permissible to call someone a douchebag or was that an insult to women's feminine hygiene choices?) No one wants to be That Guy. He's usually dull-witted and there's a good chance he's hiding his discomfort with people unlike himself under his careful English language study. That's been my experience with That Guy, anyway.
But when this (quote) "hipster-ironic-
Vice-magazine-thing" climate takes over to the point where ALL we hear from certain individuals are references to bitches, cunts, negroes, fags, and darkies -- where
any attempt to contend with inequity in a serious fashion is considered boring and sooo 1990s -- wtf, world? I've read bloggers who apparently cannot even one time write the word "Arab" without spelling it "Ay-rab." I know who they think they're making fun of when they do that, but it implies that anti-Arab prejudice is the single most salient factor in Arabs' lives (rather than a part of the constellation of experiences that go into being human), and that anti-Arab prejudice only exists among the uneducated, rather than being frightfully common in, for example, Washington, where I assume the word is pronounced correctly.
Also? I'm not sure this is fair, but when someone does stuff like this they are announcing that they're really, really familiar with that kind of language and that type of thinking. I say that's possibly not fair because we're all familiar with it -- everyone's heard these slurs -- but when it's
always the
first thing that comes to mind? Really? Always? ...At that point I start to wonder who they're hanging out with.